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Now I hate to contradict other players, but there is an article I recently read in which the author says that you pretend to mistake one female for another, find out where she works, and then send flowers to her workplace even though you only met her for a minute.
I ignored her advice, of course, and refused to call H back.She emailed me and said she wanted to know how I was doing, and to please give her a call.Doing the nice guy stuff boosts the girl's ego, but doesn't necessarily get you anywhere, and can be downright detrimental.The following is another example of flawed female advice...by Marlimus Gentlemen, listen up because this is crucial.Be careful when taking advice from women about other women.
You will hear things like "the best person to ask about advice with women is a woman." This is not true, if only because what a woman says she wants and what she actually responds to are two different things.
First off, forget almost everything your mother might have told you when you were young about being the perfect gentleman. Nothing's wrong with being civilized, but mothers try to brainwash you into thinking that every woman ought to be treated like a princess, so that by extension, you'll treat her like one too; it's a way for her to reinforce her authority.
Showing up 20 minutes early with flowers on a first date is a no-no.
Secondly, female friends subconsciously put themselves in the girl's shoes when you ask them for advice.
So they will tell you to do certain things not because that is what will get you the girl, but because that is what would make them feel good and boost their egos, if they were the girl in question. She came to the first, cancelled the second, said she was really sorry.
My lady friend, A, recommended that I call back in 3 days if I don't hear from her, act considerate, and ask her if everything is ok. Because if she was H, that is what she would want me to do because that would boost her ego.